|Dating an older woman is the
ultimate achievement for both men and women. Older women who pursue younger
partners are often referred to as Cougars, as they are sultry predators
of pleasure. These women reek of sexuality for their confidence, mothering
nature, and advanced mental-emotional development. Sexy women like these
can be found on sites like MutualArrangements.com.
appeal to younger generations for their self-confidence. They have passed
the threshold of coquettish, self-conscious girlhood into self-aware womanhood
which mesmerizes younger men and women. After all, confidence is the epitome
of sexy, in every language, for every age.
Part of this undeniable confidence comes from an older woman’s
extensive sexual experience. Whether she has been married before or not,
an older woman has had more years of experience between the sheets than
her younger partner. A Cougar’s partner therefore gets to experience the
excitement of learning new positions and sensations as performed by a master.
Apart from the new sexual sensations are the emotional sensations
of being nurtured by a mothering figure. An older woman may be a mother,
or may have never had children; either way, she has an instinct to take
care of a younger person. Her gentle hand and soothing caresses help her
younger partners to put their anxieties and troubles aside. A Cougar can
also guide their boyish and girlish companions through the stumbling blocks
that stand along the path toward becoming a self-sufficient adult.
To this end, a Cougar
can provide monetary assistance. Money means power and is therefore part
of an older woman’s sex appeal. A woman with money was either highly successful
in business – further evidence to their confidence, intellect and ability
to get to the top – or made out on a divorce – suggesting that they valued
themselves enough to marry a wealthy man, and valued themselves even more
to make use of his riches in asserting her independence. Either way, a
woman’s money makes her attractive to a younger set.
Still, acting as mentor and financial support to a younger person
does not mean that mature women drain themselves of their own resources
without receiving anything in return. Older women appreciate the vigor
of a young sexual partner – and especially boys because they reach their
sexual prime before women, making a Cougar and a cub a perfect match in
bed. Because an older woman appreciates the excitement of youth in bed,
the younger partner feels validated. This, again, increases the sex appeal
of an older woman.
Finally, older women are appealing to younger
men and women because they usually do not want marriage or children.
To younger men and women, these limited expectations promise that a relationship
with an older woman is focused on them.